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Making the Most of Your Family's Vacation

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What makes a great family vacation? There is no one way to do it, even if you've taken the same vacation year after year. Keeping an open mind, recognizing that the vacation is for everyone, and striving towards compromise can separate the sparklers from the duds.

For starters:

  • Drop the idealism. If you think the family getaway will measure up to some idealized version of perfection, you will be disappointed. As one parent said, "My kids whined in Disney World just like they do at home!" Instead of perfection, strive for memory-making moments that keep everyone feeling good about being together.

  • Get the whole family involved in planning. Nothing helps someone feel good about an experience like being part of the decision-making team. Look at travel brochures, Web sites, and newspaper articles together. Elicit your children's ideas. You may not end up doing what they want—or you may—but you will have fostered communication, decision-making, and compromise.

  • Schedule something for everyone. Dragging your kids from museum to museum because it's your vacation, too, will probably not work (unless your kids love museums) if your children would rather go to an amusement park. Nor do you have to feel obligated to indulge your child's every wish just because you're on vacation. Strike a balance so everyone gets some time to do what he or she likes.

  • Give teens some latitude. Judy, a 15-year-old, was griping about having to get up early every day to sightsee, so her parents gave her mornings off. They made arrangements to meet before lunch. Everyone won. Judy got the rest she wanted and her parents didn't have to spend their mornings with an unhappy kid.

  • Break off and do things separately. A family vacation doesn't dictate unconditional togetherness. If you and your daughter want to visit the science museum but your son and his dad want to play wiffle ball on the beach, so be it. The goal is an enjoyable experience for everyone.
Make Road Trips a Breeze

Does the idea of traveling by car with your kids this summer make you want to stay home? To make road travel more fun, try these simple ideas from the "Travel Games" section of the new Girl Scout resource, Let's Play! Games for Girls Ages 5-11.

Alphabet Search—Players search for the letters of the alphabet on buildings, billboards, license plates, etc. The first player to get to the letter Z is the winner.

Cliffhanger—One person begins a suspenseful story. When she gets to the cliffhanger, the next player continues the story. The story continues from person to person until its conclusion. Start the story off with humorous titles, too, such as "The Weirdest First Day of School."

Travel Bingo—Create 9-by-9 inch bingo cards beforehand decorated with pictures of things travelers might see on a trip. When players spy the object (such as a flower, an animal, or a landmark) they mark the square with a sticky note. The winner is the first player to cover a row…or the whole card.

I'm Thinking Of—Similar to the game 20 Questions, this game requires someone to think of a person, place, or thing. The objective is to stump the other players so it should be something familiar but not too obvious. The others ask questions about the object that can be answered with a yes or no. When a player receives a no answer, it ends her turn and the next player asks. The player who guesses the secret person, place, or thing gets to be the lead player.

To order Let's Play! Games for Girls Ages 5-11, visit the Girl Scout online shop (see New Publications banner on left) or call National Equipment Service (NES) at (800) 221-6707.

 
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