Most Girls Say Adulthood Feels Scary — New Data from Girl Scouts of the USA Reveals What They Need Most

Most Girls Say Adulthood Feels Scary — New Data from Girl Scouts of the USA Reveals What They Need Most

NEW YORK (April 14, 2026) – New data from Girl Scouts of the USA (GSUSA) reveals that the idea of becoming a grown-up sounds scary to more than half (54 percent) of girls ages 5 to 13. That feeling increases with age: 41% of girls ages 5 to 7 feel this way, jumping to 62% among ages 8 to 10 and remaining high at 60% for ages 11 to 13. 

Fortunately, supportive role models can play a key role in helping girls feel more prepared for what lies ahead, and girls are clear about what matters in mentors. The majority (85%) say they look up to others for what they can do versus how they look (15%), 

“This data confirms what we’ve long understood: girls are coming of age in a world that’s changing faster than ever, and they’re carrying the weight of that change while still trying to be kids,” said Bonnie Barczykowski, CEO of GSUSA. “That’s why it’s so important for girls to have supportive adults in their lives — like Girl Scout volunteers — who can help them navigate the world around them, build confidence and develop skills that stay with them as they grow.”

At a time when many girls feel overwhelmed by the idea of growing up, Girl Scouts of the USA is offering practical guidance to help adults and caregivers support girls in building confidence about their future: 

  • Normalize uncertainty and building confidence: Help girls understand that adulthood doesn’t require having all the answers, reframing the future as an opportunity rather than something to fear. 
  • Teach practical, real-world skills: From financial literacy to communication and decision-making, equip girls with the tools they need to navigate everyday challenges with confidence.  
  • Create opportunities to try new things: In supportive, low-risk environments, girls can take on leadership roles, test new skills, and build resilience through experience. 
  • Model healthy and balanced pathways to adulthood: Provide relatable examples of how to manage responsibilities, pursue goals, and maintain well-being in a modern world.  
  • Emphasize values, impact, and purpose over perfection: By reinforcing what truly matters, help girls focus on making meaningful contributions and defining success on their own terms.

Girl Scouts of the USA is committed to ensuring girls don’t feel alone when they think about their futures. Through hands-on experiences, supportive mentors and programs designed to help girls discover their own strengths and potential, Girl Scouts creates space for them to try new things, use their voices and reach their potential. At a time when growing up can feel overwhelming, Girl Scouts remains a steady, trusted place where girls can develop resilience, self-belief and the skills they need to shape their own futures with optimism and strength.

La mayoría de las niñas dice que la edad adulta les da miedo: nuevos datos de Girl Scouts of the USA revelan lo que más necesitan